Pain and Sex (painful sex)

Have you been experiencing pain around sex?  

You’ve been experiencing pain and wondering if it can ever be different. 

You might have been dealing with this for as long as you remember. 

Perhaps it’s a recent change that initially seemed temporary. 

You may feel that the pain, or even the thought of pain has taken a toll on your desire. 

It’s getting in the way of your connection and pleasure in your relationship(s). 

sex therapy can help

It might feel difficult now, but you can enhance pleasure and connection in your sex life again.   

Sex therapy helps you:

  • Explore and address the pain you’re experiencing 

  • Work to reduce pain and enhance pleasure 

  • Deepen your understanding of your sexual patterns and issues 

  • Learn how to communicate effectively about your sexual like and boundaries 

I will be here to guide you through the process, tailoring each step to your unique sexual and relationship(s) needs. My approach to sex therapy builds on the strengths you already have, we harness those strengths, learn helpful strategies, and support you in experiencing the sex life you’ve been wanting.

You deserve a pleasure filled and connected sex life. Let’s do this!

FAQS

+ WHAT IS SEX THERAPY?

Sex therapy is a type of talk therapy that focuses on sexuality, sexual issues such as erectile disfunction and pain during sex, relationships and intimacy. There is never sexual touching, sexual activity, or nudity in sex therapy.

+ If I’m in a relationship does my partner(s) need to come to sessions?

It is helpful to havea team approach to working through pianful sex and enhancing sex life, especially if that sex life involves a partner. However, not everyone feels comfortable involving their partner, especially at the beginning. If you would feel more comfortable starting individually, we can do that and discuss if bringing in your partner later on would feel comfortable.

+ CAN I BENEFIT FROM SEX THERAPY EVEN IF I’M NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP?

Absolutely! You do not need to be partnered in order to benefit from sex therapy but some find if they are partnered, it can be helpful to have partner(s) engage in therapy too. However, you can benefit from better understanding your own journey around sexuality and can communicate that with your partner(s) outside of therapy.

+ HOW LONG ARE SEX THERAPY SESSIONS?

Sessions are 50 minutes and once per week but may be adjusted once significant progress has been made. We can talk about this together when the time comes.

+ HOW MANY SESSIONS WILL I NEED?

As most therapists will tell you, it depends. Some people may feel their issues are improved or resolved fairly quickly, others may benefit from a longer term approach. This is something we can discuss over the course of our work together.

+ WHAT IS THE INVESTMENT/FEE?

Your time and emotional and mental energy. Therapy is no quick fix. It is hard work, but worth the effort. In addition to your hard work, there is also a financial investment.

50 minute individual sessions are $235

50 minute relationship sessions are $265

+ I’m ready to get started! Now what?

Fantastic! Click the button below to schedule an initial assessment. This will allow us to get a sense of what you’re hoping to work on and if we are a fit to work together. Then you will be on the way to deeper connection in your sex life and relationship(s)!